Trauma-Based Therapy for Internationals
Trauma is an experience that can profoundly impact your life, especially when living abroad. When a person undergoes a traumatic event, they often try to avoid the emotions associated with it, thus experiencing the trauma. If you find yourself experiencing intense distress, flashbacks, fear and anxiety, disturbing thoughts, and avoiding situations or people linked to the traumatic event, it’s essential to seek professional help from a psychotherapist and start the journey to recovery.
What is Trauma?
Trauma can affect those who have experienced or witnessed a traumatic event, especially when you are away from home in an unfamiliar environment. Such events can be emotionally or physically harmful or life-threatening, impacting your emotional, mental, physical, social, and overall wellbeing.
Expats and internationals with trauma often face intense distress, disturbing thoughts, and emotions related to their experience, which can last long after the traumatic event. They may relive the event through flashbacks and memories, experiencing deep sadness, anger, fear, and a sense of detachment from others. They might avoid situations or people that remind them of the trauma and have strong negative reactions to triggers such as loud noises or unexpected physical contact
Types of Trauma
There are various ways expats and internationals may experience trauma, including:
- Relational Trauma: Sexual abuse, rape, intimate partner violence.
- Generational Trauma: Early childhood trauma, domestic violence. Grief and loss.
- Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): Assault, bullying, childbirth, war, accidents.
Signs of Trauma
- Intrusive Sensations: Experiencing intrusive thoughts, distressing dreams, or flashbacks related to the traumatic event. Vivid memories that make you feel as if you are reliving the experience.
- Avoidance: Steering clear of anything that reminds you of the traumatic event, including people, places, activities, and situations that trigger distressing memories. Avoidance of thinking or talking about the event or your feelings about it.
- Mood Changes: Difficulty remembering the traumatic event, negative thoughts and emotions leading to beliefs like “I am bad” or “I can’t trust anyone.” Blaming yourself or others, feeling fear, anger, guilt, or shame, losing interest in enjoyable activities. Feeling detached from others and unable to experience positive emotions.
- Reactivity: Irritability, angry outbursts, reckless behavior, self-destructive tendencies, heightened paranoia, and issues with concentration and sleep.
Many people experience these signs within the first three months following a trauma, and for some, these symptoms persist for months or even years. Trauma often accompanies other mental health conditions such as depression, substance use, memory problems, and other physical and psychological issues.
Recovering from Trauma
Trauma is something that has happened to you and you are more. Trauma can cause significant distress to you and those you care about, especially when you're navigating life in a new country. Fortunately, there are effective ways to cope with and heal from traumatic events. Research shows that Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is effective for treating trauma. Through ACT psychotherapy, you can begin to recover from traumatic distress and explore new ways of living that go beyond the traumatic event. We invite you to start psychotherapy and start your journey to recovery from trauma.